Last week, one of my pals suggested that a few of us get together for lunch. We all managed to be free at the same time (no small feat for us), and we were treated to an amazing announcement in our company cafeteria. Continue reading
6 Things You Can Do to Not Bankrupt Your Wedding Guests
Brides know better than anyone that weddings are a fortune, but somehow we forget that we’re not the only ones incurring charges just because we’re getting married. Consider the following when you’re making some key wedding decisions, and your guests (and their wallets) will thank you. Continue reading
A Touching Letter to President Obama on Marriage Equality
As you no doubt know, Barack Obama finally spoke out in support of gay marriage, a first for a sitting president. This stirred up all kinds of emotions in Americans, especially in my former college suitemate, Michael (that’s him on the right). I’ve been lucky enough to have been Mike’s friend as he navigated dating life in our Brandeis days to when he proposed to his wonderful boyfriend Aaron (the bespectacled guy on the left). And in June, I’ll witness them tie the knot. Michael drafted a letter to the president, a must-read if I ever saw one. Continue reading
Is This the Strangest Decision You Can Make as Newlyweds?
Few things have floored me as much as this announcement from soon-to-be-married friends of friends. But maybe I see things differently… Continue reading
All I Wanted as a Bride Was for My Friends to Hook Up
A dirty little secret about brides: Besides wanting to celebrate their own luck in love, many hope that their weddings will lead to new relationships. I was no exception. Continue reading
The Rudest Engagement Ring Comments EVER
I’ve received backhanded compliments and straight-up aggressive remarks about my engagement ring. And it made me wonder if you all have, too. So I posted the question on Facebook and Twitter. I truly was hoping I wouldn’t get any responses because no one wants such a symbolic, important purchase criticized. Alas, I was barraged with replies. Here they are. Continue reading
Husband Material: A New Update on the Guys
So far, I’ve featured six eligible bachelors who are totally husband material (and one adorable guy who will be husband material in 23 years or so). So how are they doin’? Continue reading
Marriage First: Attending a Wedding Without Your Husband
Yesterday was my first wedding (of six) for 2012. It was also the first-ish time I went to a wedding without Paul since we were married, and I had some funny realizations. Continue reading
The 6 Worst Reasons to Get Married
There’s really only one good reason to get married: because you’ve found your soul mate, you know each other well enough and long enough to be positive you want to spend the rest of your lives together, and you’re mature enough to work hard at keeping your relationship strong. But there are so many bad ones. Here are the six worst. Continue reading
Would You Nix Your Favorite Baby Name If a Celebrity Chose It?
A pregnant person I know has a short list of names she and her hubby are considering for their soon-to-arrive son. But one of them had to go when a certain celebrity chose that moniker for her offspring. Continue reading

